"Pornography has become a serious problem in our society. The effects of pornography have resulted in an increase of sexual abuse and exploitation of children and women, broken marriages and families, and an increase in violent crimes and addictive behaviors.
President Gordon B. Hinckley has stated: "Pornography, with its sleazy filth, sweeps over the earth like a horrible, engulfing tide. It is poison. Do not watch it or read it. It will destroy you if you do. It will take from you your self-respect. It will rob you of a sense of the beauties of life. It will tear you down and pull you into a slough of evil thoughts and possibly evil actions. Stay away from it. Shun it as you would a foul disease, for it is just as deadly" - (lds.org)
Reasons I personally don't like pornography:
1: It makes girls think that you have to look and be a certain way for guys to see you not only sexually attractive but attractive. Girs think the easiest way to get any where in the world is by get naked, they think that its the quickest way to get attention and noticed... It is very degrading.
2: People take advantage of children and exploit them to fill fantasies of seriously disturbed individuals!!!
3: Men get addicted to porn and it distroys marriages... Men want the wives to be a certain way and look and act a certain way and get dissapointed when those expectations arnt met and women feel depressed becoz the men want to look at other women. It is totally understandable I would feel like crap if my guy couldnt get all the satisfaction he needs from me and has to go stare at other chicks to feel his needs.
4: Its just degrading and makes the world to used to that sort of enviroment.
I read in an article that the most addictive thing is junk food, herione and porn...I feel sorry for those people that have an addiction to it and want to get away from it, my advice... Go to lds.org... they have programs to help with that sort of thing and also you need to make that firm choice in your mind that you want to change... because if your on the fence about it then your not going to be able to give it up.. just like drinking and smoking. Again... just my point of view on the matter.
I agree with every thing you have said. Porn has an alure. Even if its not in sight. Cause you feel like your gratifying a desire. But in reality your gapining a void, making it bigger. Porn is visual, virtual, and even on the covers of just about anything trying to be sold.
ReplyDeletei believe porn has degrees and we have degrees of strength/ chastity. but if we weaken ourselves.. our desire to endulge in it increases. and so also our desire to partake in more graphic images and thoughts. some ppl, lose feeling in abstinance or chastity. and are compelled to indulge. taking pleasurable moments or chemical intoxifacation over your value to choose or your lack of habits/addictions. even fetishes.. and self worth.
Also. Fallowing a persons charature as and after they choose to look ar porn. They change so dose their sexuall desires. Wanting more or specifics. And they become sevea4ly oppinionated about the oppisit sex. Fallowing primal desires more frequently but trying to somehow desighn or graph a basis from what they believe will keep that pleasurable experiance anew, or hightened. same for those who believe they become more excepting of whatever. Like heroine. The more you use the more you need for a fix.
People destroy their lives with their spouses, relationships with ppl, financialy, and mentally.
I beleive it destroys parts of ppl more than they can yet realize, becauwe they are so hard to admit that little pleasure key is the sourse Of slow destruction internally. If your spiritual.. these things are destructive and are evil. Yet we accept them in some of our daily life.
And it brings miss understanding or a depraved acception among so many wives, girlfriends, and girls generally.
I ask a question, did you see your father doing these things to your mother when you were a child? Then why would you do this to your wife or girlfriend?
If you find yourself wanting to find joy in porn you need to stop cause that even sounds retarted. There is no joy in these things.
Ppl who do this become desensitized and try to get that fix again and again, children or young teens want to experiance sex. Leading to them accaually fallowing throw with it. And why? To feel that alltime highonly to have regrets later? Or no regrets and just fallowing through with more and more?.. regrets fallow. Its just when.
Same to men .. some lose intrest in their wives or lose respect tward that person. Seeking adulterous relationships in some cases. Regrets after? I think so when you see you dont have respect or care for your families and spouse after.. that you gave aloot away for so little.
Love is in your actions. Abstaining. And moving from these things. Is one that is greatly appreciated.
And also to the single. Dont believe that your safe or that its ok. Cause in more.. your alone to believe that you can plung into pornography and have no regrets.
ReplyDeleteThere is structure to your mind. And porn for some reason strains it/ hinders it. Other valuble qualitys get lost. Like selfdicipline.
If you found yourself trying to stop looking at porn. Even an atempt. You will see. That your lured back. or that you have an unnatural sway twards it again.
Keep trying. and youll see you cant stop. Even if its a slight atraction. Dont blame this on being human. Your sexual desires and phyisical wants can be controled and mastered to nonrecognition. And still be compleatly normal to be sexual when that time comes.
Your not gonna die if you dont look at porn. But parts of you or future relationships can and will. I promis you this..
porn is an aluring thing. But its a delta to personal desires and personal qualities. Abstain and control yourself. And save all those things for only one person. Your wife or husband.
Never let your self or anyone tell you its ok to give things away that seem damn near impossible to get back. Or in some cases, you cant get back.
...if porn was a collective body. A person. Im sure it would sound like this
Ill let you take from me if i can take from you.
Im ok with giving somthing away.
But its usually somthing that cant be given back.. not tangable. but we know is real
Dont be used by anything that says its ok and has already destroyed someones life in one way or another.DO NOT think youll be different.
unless its sanctified by marriage.. even then so. Keep it chast and worth while, worth its value.
Is it so hard to believe sexual things are good when sanctified.
But pure evil and dangerous when not?
Last thing i can think of..
ReplyDeleteThis goes to men and woman. i dont care who you are your acceptable to these dangers that dont look so dangerous. It says i dont care who you are, kinda like a gun.. only people kill people not guns. and your incontrol.. or outta control on this one.
Used is a lesser word denoting somthing as the lesser. Dont be used by your habits or addictions.
KC thank you sooo much for your comments.... I totally agree with everything that you have said. I dont have to say anything more because you have said everything perfectly! <3
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