SO i feel that some people are trying to put me on this guilt trip. Liek things are my fault and Im responsible for the way other people feel... But all I see is selfish people... seeing what they want to see and not taking responsibilties for their actions. Actions speak louder then words... you say one thing and do another... Dont make me feel guilty if your not actually meaning any of it!
Judgemental people... I am mending my ways and trying to not be in the catagory! Peoplae have no place to judge.... when you are trying to give advice about someone and telling people... hey dont hang out with that person... just because you have an issue with them... thats being judgemental.
I understand that some people have good intentions and are trying to change and eveyone has the right to change... I know I have.... so I will give people the benefit of the doubt! We should all do the same!
I dont know exactly what Im trying to say or what This is really about... I guess thats why it is called a rant!
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Ups and Downs
I hate not knowing where I stand with people. AM I on the good side, bad side, Loving side...... I would so prefer people to be straight with me so Im not on the roller coaster called the "I Have no Freaking clue right now Whats going on" ride!!! SOOO NOT fun... and I like roller coasters!!!
I hate doing things and planning things like crazy and then others take credit for my work!!! Bugs the HELL out of me!!!
I hate saying I will do things and then not get a chance to do it!!!
I hate missing people .... I wish I could just put everyone I know in one country and we all live happily in ONE country so we can see each other when ever we feel like it!!
LOVE the people that have helped me and inspired me.... lifted me when I was down instead of kicking me. Given me advise I will keep in my heart forever and love that I will cherish for the rest of my life.
Love my Family for being those people ..... for all the support they give me on a daily basis..... just being their own unique and wonderful selves!!
Love my Friends especially my close ones who have helped me through tuff times and have stuck by me no matter what!!! (you know who you are) :)
Be straight with me and I will be straight with you...... BE kind and I'll be kind back...... Hurt me and I will try and turn the other Cheek (you'll have to give me time though but I will get around)...... Be friends and Family and I will keep you in my heart forever!
I hate doing things and planning things like crazy and then others take credit for my work!!! Bugs the HELL out of me!!!
I hate saying I will do things and then not get a chance to do it!!!
I hate missing people .... I wish I could just put everyone I know in one country and we all live happily in ONE country so we can see each other when ever we feel like it!!
LOVE the people that have helped me and inspired me.... lifted me when I was down instead of kicking me. Given me advise I will keep in my heart forever and love that I will cherish for the rest of my life.
Love my Family for being those people ..... for all the support they give me on a daily basis..... just being their own unique and wonderful selves!!
Love my Friends especially my close ones who have helped me through tuff times and have stuck by me no matter what!!! (you know who you are) :)
Be straight with me and I will be straight with you...... BE kind and I'll be kind back...... Hurt me and I will try and turn the other Cheek (you'll have to give me time though but I will get around)...... Be friends and Family and I will keep you in my heart forever!
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Thoughts Of The Day
I think about life and how the past is always there in the back of our mind... haunting us..... luring us back.... question is... do I want to go back???
WE do things that we do not like. That we are not proud of. That we are ashamed of. BUT the past made us the way we are today. If we didnt go through the things we did we wouldnt be the people we are now. I may hate the things that I have done but because of my past I can help others avoid the things that I went through. I can help them and hopefully advise them to avoid leading lives that I know they dont want. The thing is I can give advise, I can be a friend, I can try and help in every way but at the end of the day its those around me that has a say in what they do with their lives and at the end of the day they have the final say. I on the other hand have a choice... a choice to either walk away or help... ME persoanlly I choice to stick by... To try and help even after they have made the choice and will be there friend no matter what.
BUT My advise is .... Forget the past... you cant control what you have done.... you cannot change it... so move on and try and make life better then it was in the past and try not make the same mistakes in your future. Because if you keep dwelling on the past ... keep dwelling on what you cannot change ... you will fall.... if you walk backwards how can you see what is infront of you.... if you keep looking in the past behind you how can you see the good things in your life... how can you see the potential and the chance you have to change. If you keep looking back you will eventually just go back to the old ways and old way of thinking.. question is do you want that to happen???
"The past is history. The Future is a mystery. Today is a gift that is why its called the present."
WE do things that we do not like. That we are not proud of. That we are ashamed of. BUT the past made us the way we are today. If we didnt go through the things we did we wouldnt be the people we are now. I may hate the things that I have done but because of my past I can help others avoid the things that I went through. I can help them and hopefully advise them to avoid leading lives that I know they dont want. The thing is I can give advise, I can be a friend, I can try and help in every way but at the end of the day its those around me that has a say in what they do with their lives and at the end of the day they have the final say. I on the other hand have a choice... a choice to either walk away or help... ME persoanlly I choice to stick by... To try and help even after they have made the choice and will be there friend no matter what.
BUT My advise is .... Forget the past... you cant control what you have done.... you cannot change it... so move on and try and make life better then it was in the past and try not make the same mistakes in your future. Because if you keep dwelling on the past ... keep dwelling on what you cannot change ... you will fall.... if you walk backwards how can you see what is infront of you.... if you keep looking in the past behind you how can you see the good things in your life... how can you see the potential and the chance you have to change. If you keep looking back you will eventually just go back to the old ways and old way of thinking.. question is do you want that to happen???
"The past is history. The Future is a mystery. Today is a gift that is why its called the present."
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